Hi and Welcome to this space.
Hi I'm Ilenia, Mum of a gourgeous little girl, a Birth and Postpartum Doula, and Hypnobirthing teacher. Pregnancy changed me in ways that I would have never imagined before. It changed my priorities completely and pushed me to follow my instinct and my real self more than I ever did in my entire life.
I believe childbirth is a rite of passage, where a woman gives birth not only to a baby but also to a new version of herself. This passage from Maiden to Mother is sacred and needs to be honored more than what our current society does. Some time ago there would have been mothers, grandmothers, and sisters to support the mother during birth and postpartum; unfortunately today this is not the case anymore.
My mission is to support women through this precious time of their life, aware that it is an honour to be part of your experience, I will support you unconditionally and with no judgement, so that you can have the best experience of childbirth, feeling heard and empowered.
How I can support you in your jorney
ANTENATAL
After our free introductory call, I will meet with you between your 24 and 37 week of pregnancy. We will have at least 2 antenatal sessions, (more sessions can be added based on your needs) during these meetings we will know each other and confirm that I’m the best fit for you. I believe that knowledge is power, so we will discuss physiology of birth and postpartum, methods of pain relief, maternity system and types of intervention. We will discuss how I can help you to achieve the type of childbirth that you are looking for. I can help you to prepare a birth plan, or to be with you for antenatal appointments if you would like to. I will be available for any questions you have. If you have any medical questions I can signpost you in the right direction. I will be available over the phone, by email or text in between our meetings.
HYPNOBIRTHING COURSE
12h course delivered live on Zoom. Check my website www.mothersportal.com to see next course dates
LABOUR
I can support you during labour, whatever you choose between homebirth, midwife-led unit or labour ward. I’ll be on call 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, from 38 weeks gestation until your baby is born. I will support you during the birth as discussed previously during our meetings. I’ll stay with you until your baby’s first feed is initiated. I will meet you again in the first weeks during postpartum, to discuss the birth experience and answer any questions if you have some.
POSTPARTUM
This is a deep time for integration of the birth experience. While you care for your baby and you start to know each other, you will slowly adjust to this new life and new you. This process takes time and is important that you have the right support and that you plan ahead. I can help you during this special time with proper food, light house work, babysitting, pet sitting, and just listening to your story or going out for a walk in nature.
MOTHER BLESSING CEREMONY
During pregnancy and birth, a new mother is going through a lot of changes in her body, mind and spirit; when these changes are seen and aknowledged by her closer community with grace and support, this passage in the mother’s life can be easier and more positive. If you're curious and would like more info, get in contact with me using the form on my website.
AS A DOULA I DO NOT
- Perform any clinical task. My role is to support you and your partner in an emotional and practical way. The role of the doula is non-medical.
- Make decisions for you. I will support you in every decision you make and we can walk together on this journey but I will never make decisions on your behalf.
- Project any of my personal experiences onto your journey. This is YOUR moment , your baby, your choices and your own and unique experience.
WHAT TO DO NEXT:
Book a free 30-minute discovery call to explore how I can support you. It’s a chance to ask questions, chat about your needs, and see if we’re the right fit. Pricing and package details are available on request.
Visit my website to see more info
