Hello there, I’m Ruth; mother, seaside wanderer, and lifelong, slightly compulsive learner.

 Overall, I am someone who believes deeply in the power of love, listening, and presence, especially at one of life’s most transformative and sacred thresholds: birth.

Since 2018, I’ve had the privilege of supporting many families through births and the early postpartum period. Each experience has been unique, a constellation of different hopes, fears, choices, and surprise, but all have been threaded with the same quiet, universal needs: to feel safe, seen, heard, and held. 

Becoming a doula wasn’t just a career move; I tried to find the thing that was going to make the most difference to each mother giving birth. When I was pregnant, I was shocked by the number of people who felt compelled to share traumatic birth stories with me. It broke my heart to hear how many had been left unheard, disrespected, or even harmed during what should have been an empowering, life-affirming experience. I knew I couldn’t look away. I had to do something, and that "something" became everything.

You might like me if any of these sound like you:

• You want to feel deeply heard and truly understood 
• You want information you can trust, not fear or guesswork.
• You want to birth your way, and be supported to feel fully in control of the experience.
• You have a clear vision for your birth and want someone strong, grounded, and gentle by your side to advocate for your wishes.
• You’re not quite sure what you want yet, but know you need someone steady, experienced, and  calm to walk with you through it all.

"Ruth is the most incredibly supportive, thoughtful and professional doula I have encountered. What a wonderwoman." – Stevie

What I bring to your birth is more than just knowledge and training. It’s presence and  intuition. It’s a deep, respectful belief in your ability to make the right choices for yourself and your baby, when given the chance, the space, and the right kind of support. I don’t show up with an agenda. I show up with open ears, skilled hands, and an open heart.

I’m trained in deep listening, not just hearing your words, but truly listening to what you mean, what you’re navigating, what matters to you. I’ve spent years honing these skills because I believe they are the foundation of good care. Sometimes what you need most is simply someone who can sit with you in the unknown, in the messy or scary bits, and say: “I’m here. You’ve got this.” 

"If you want a great birth experience, you should get in touch with Ruth. She will always be there for you when you need her." – Elena

I know that the difference between a traumatic and a transformative birth often lies not in the details, but in how people are treated. Were you respected? Were you heard? Were you in control? I am fiercely protective of your right to be the decision-maker in your birth space, and gently relentless in making sure you have what you need to feel that power.

"Ruth is the best doula anyone could wish for!❤️ [...] Ruth instantly put my partner at ease and helped guide him, giving him the confidence throughout. [...] We couldn’t have done it without her." – Hannah

Whether you are bringing your first baby into the world or your fifth, whether you’re flying solo or navigating it all with a partner, I’ll meet you exactly where you are. My job is to amplify your voice, help you connect with your inner knowing, and support you: emotionally, physically, practically, so you can birth in strength, however that looks for you.

"You will not regret having Ruth present before and during your baby’s birth. [...] Ruth is a natural doula and has a deeply caring nature. I cannot recommend her highly enough." – Natalie

We will work together, as a team, toward your birth. One that reflects your values, your choices, and your unique journey. I’ll walk beside you without judgment, with deep respect and love for the human in front of me, and the baby they’re bringing into the world.

“If a doula were a drug, it would be unethical not to use it.” — Dr. John H. Kennell

I believe everyone deserves a supported birth, no matter your circumstances. If cost is a concern, please reach out, we can talk through a variety of options to make sure you get the support you need and deserve.

"Ruth is kind, patient, supportive and collected as well as extremely knowledgeable. She has a special way of making your inner voice sound clearer [...]." – Jardena

If you're looking for someone who can bring calm into the chaos, presence into the unknown, and strength into your birth room, I’d love to hear your story. Tell me what you’re hoping for. What’s on your mind? What do you dream of for your birth? Let’s begin there.

📩 Email: ruth.mothermother@gmail.com
📱 WhatsApp: 07886199300

A little more about me:

• Volunteer for Family Action FamilyLine
• Volunteer with Doulas Without Borders
• Volunteer for Neighbourhood Doulas in London
• Co-facilitator for The Birth Network – North Kent
• Founder of The Kent Doula Collective
• Volunteer (in training) for ABM & National Breastfeeding Helpline