It is YOUR Birth Journey, not anyone else’s. It is your journey of giving birth to a new life as well as of you being born as a mother/parent.
I cover the whole of Ceredigion and some areas nearby in Mid West Wales which include Aberaeron, Aberystwyth, Machynlleth, Llanidloes, Llandeilo, Lampeter, Cardigan, Crymych and Carmarthen. I offer face to face services but some services can be online if preferred.
About Me
My name is Tomoko. I currently live near Aberaeron in Ceredigion after living in Guernsey, Bangkok in Thailand and England. I am from Japan and have a husband from England and 3 boys from 10 to 16 years old.
I have supported from homebirth to gentle Caesarean birth. I truly believe it is most important that each mother and birthing person make their own choice as it is YOUR Birth Journey.
I love being a mother of my 3 wonderful children - we laugh, cry and, of course, sometimes have arguments as well. I do love spending those colourful moments with them. I also love walking in the beautiful Welsh nature, dipping into the sea and spending time nurturing my creativity too.
Birth Doula support
“Mothering the mother” is my passion, as that was how I myself was encouraged and supported in my motherhood journey. You will be supported all the way through pregnancy to the early postpartum period so that you can relax with confidence.
My Birth Doula package includes prenatal sessions, attending the birth, postnatal visits and unlimited phone/email support throughout your pregnancy and up to 6 weeks postnatal.
In prenatal sessions
Birth preparation isn't solely about imparting knowledge about the birthing process. While you'll gain access to plenty of beneficial and evidence-based information, what sets these sessions apart is the journey of self-discovery and reflection, tapping into the wisdom within yourself.
During birth
You will be given gentle, calming and assuring support without disturbing your birthing world. You will also be assisted to have good communication with healthcare providers so that you can make informed decisions. This can significantly enhance your birth experience.
In postnatal visits
I check in on how you and your family are getting on with your new journey with your baby physically, emotionally and practically. I will be there to assure you at this very start of motherhood/parenthood. A birth exploration session and the Closing the Bones Ceremony is typically included to aid your life-changing transition, depending on your package.
Testimonials
Knowing how hard it is for me to stand up to authority, Tomoko helped me by educating me on my rights, on asking the right questions, on questioning statistics and standing up for what I want, while listening to my own instincts. She also supported me to find more trust in myself and my decisions. During labour, she was reminding me calmly and silently at crucial moments of choices. She did not interfere, let things flow, but helped me remember alternatives. Plus her sacrum massage was excellent and helped loads!!
KH
I know that we had already read a lot, but your wisdom, advice & the resources you passed on to us helped us so much and made such a huge difference both in advocating for ourselves during pregnancy & our birth experiences. Your energy is so calming & empowering. You are so kind & non judgemental and I felt so safe & comfortable in your presence. You were such a perfect fit for us with our holistic & spiritual approach to birth. You helped make our dream birth happen & you made such a difference to our pregnancy journey too.
Kelly-Marie
Thank you. You really did make the experience of birth calm and just what I needed to feel safe and in control. You have a special gift.
EH
I’m not sure the words exist to explain how grateful we are to have found you. Your calm, kind and gentle presence was what kept me going through the worst of those moments at birth - your breath became my breath, your calm my calm. You truly are a birthing angel on earth and I cannot thank you enough. We really couldn’t have done it so amazingly well without you.
Chelsea
Yr oedd Tomoko, yn ardderchog. Roedd hi gyda llawer o gyngor da i ni. Roedd y cyngor hyn wedi neud y brosses llawer yn rwyddach a hefyd yn llanw ni gyda hyder. KCC
I felt totally included in the birth process. Tomoko was completely respectful of my role within the birth. Just a huge thank you. I am so pleased with how our birth went. It was perfect and every little thing you did made a huge difference to both Kelly and myself.
Andrew (birthing mum's partner)
It was not just the support at the birth but bringing energy and awareness very early on in the pregnancy. Conscious pregnancy. Thank you again. You brought a loving and spiritual energy to the process which was unexpected but amazing.
Birthing mum’s partner
Birth Doula Package: Please visit https://www.yourbirthjourneydoula.com/birth-doula-support
Postnatal Doula Support
Giving birth is not actually an end goal in itself, but the start of your new journey as a mother and parent.
When we had our first baby, we were lost. Everything was new to us! How do you care for a baby!? We had lots to learn! In addition, I couldn’t allow myself to rest in bed most of the time. I was pushing myself to do housework. As a result, I became unwell during the postnatal period.
So, I trained as a Doula to support mums so that they don’t have to go through what I experienced! I have learnt that the postnatal period is such an important and sensitive time. I use my extensive experience as a mother of 3 children and Doula to support mothers/parents to really look after themselves in this crucial period of time because that will lead you and your family to a happier and healthier life together.
Testimonials
She always checked what I needed and jumped in - sorting baby clothes, washes, dishes, a massage, time for a shower or playing with my toddler. She always supported my family, also my husband, really listened and helped out with hands or information. Her smile and reassurance that I’m doing well in my job as a mother were much appreciated every time. KH
Tomo is gentle, supportive and very efficient in the household. She is always happy to help with laundry and keeping the house tidy and clean whilst happily watching my older 2 children if needed. She is reliable and always on time with a smile on her face. A great addition to the family at such an important time. Thank you Tomo! X
Tomoko is respectful, kind, considerate, gentle and calm. She is also very friendly and knowledgeable. Having a postpartum doula was very worthwhile. She has helped with tasks such as dishes, hoovering, going to the store, and laundry. Family and friends get excited for the new baby but a doula has an element of professionalism. MO’H
Tomoko was very helpful with cleaning, laundry etc postnatally. She was always friendly, caring and supportive. EJ
Postnatal Doula Packages: Please visit https://www.yourbirthjourneydoula.com/postnatal-doula-support
Doula UK Recognised Birth & Postnatal doula
Completed Supporting Survivors in the Perinatal Period by Resilient Birth
Completed Birth Art by Birthing From Within
Certified Mother Nature Circle facilitator
For more details, please visit https://www.yourbirthjourneydoula.com
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